Wednesday, March 10

Rocking the Red Pump

Red Pump Widget

Today is National Women's and Girls' HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (NWAGHAAD). Last year, bloggers Karyn of The Fabulous Giver and Luvvie of Awesomely Luvvie co-created the Red Pump Project which strives to increase the awareness of HIV/AIDS, encourage dialogue about HIV/AIDS, and teach women/girls about the alarmingly rapid rate at which the disease is spreading. I personally Rock the Red Pump in remembrance of my "Aunt" Tina who succumbed to the disease a few years ago. I told her story on my personal blog last year on World AIDS Day. The need for education/awareness is imperative.

Fellow Blogger Reads4Pleasure is hosting a discussion on Bernice McFadden's "Keeper of the Keys" tonight in honor of NWAGHAAD. I'll be hustling home in order to make sure I can participate. The book is available for $1.99 on Amazon.com and can be downloaded even if you do not have the Kindle. More information about the discussion can be found here: http://reads4pleasure.blogspot.com/2010/03/reminder-join-us-march-10-to-discuss.html

Friday, March 5

Housekeeping...

Greetings all! :)

In an effort to be a) a bit more serious about my blogging & 2) more organized with my life in general ;), a few things are going to be changing around these parts and I just wanted to make you aware.

1. You may have already noticed a different format w/ my review entries. Before I gave a brief synopsis and now I'm giving a more in-depth view. I felt I was doing some of these books a disservice by only giving brief snippets, hence the expounding. I have also expanded my thoughts and feelings about the novels I read a bit more. I think I want to add my favorite line (if there is one) from the novel, within context of course, as well. <--that was a comma splice. Ignore it. HAHA.

2. I have set a schedule for myself. New posts on M-W-F. I'll still be reading every day of course. That's the only way I keep from going off on some of these people on the Metra. Especially those who look like I am yelling in the Grand Canyon when I am holding a quiet conversation on my phone. UGH. Wait, what? Sorry, I got distracted. YES! New posting schedule, M-W-F.

3. I'll be updating my layout soon as well. My wonderful friend Jenny has created a layout for me! I've been sitting w/ this domain name and this default blogger layout for far too long, ha! Time to make this place look a little prettier. :)

Errrmmm, I think that's all of the changes for now. Hopefully I have the time this weekend to get things rolling. I have enough drafts to last me for about a month of posts, so I should be good on content. Thanks for sticking with me through the evolution of this project that started out as a lark, but has morphed into something in which I am finding great joy. :)

Wednesday, March 3

Just My Luck - Tajuana "TJ" Butler

In Just My Luck, Butler introduces us to Lanita Lightfoot who is a 30-something soon-to-be graduate of USC. Her husband (who is also graduating today) has paid for for to have a spa day including hair, makeup, and nails before the graduation ceremony that is set to take place later in the afternoon. On her way into the salon, Lanita finds four quarters sitting on the ground. She chalks it up to her "luck" that has been showing itself since her birth. Upon entering the salon she is greeted by the receptionist, Natasha, to whom she begins telling her life story.

In the midst of the Watts riots in the 60s, Lanita's mother went into labor. Her father is nowhere to be found. Since the area was so chaotic and hectic, she ends up giving birth in a local store owned by Chinese immigrants. This store remains untouched by the rioters because Lanita's mother was giving birth. So overwhelmed with joy, the owner of the store (who also managed to own/rent many apartment buildings) offered Lanita's mother an apartment rent free for the rest of their lives. After living in the apartment for 12 years, Lanita and her mother are evicted at the behest of the landlord's children who have taken over since his death.

With no skills and having not worked a day in her life, Lanita's mother is forced to go on welfare. They are moved from a luxurious 2 bedroom apartment to a 1 bedroom efficiency. I should also mention that at this point, Lanita's mother's drinking increased heavily. She was mixed up with a no good man and he had her strung out on gin and table wine. There was barely enough money to cover their groceries, let alone buy toiletries, so Lanita was barely able to wash herself. She became known in school as the stinky kid and was an outcast. One day she confides in her teacher and the teacher sets out to help Lanita and her mother. She gets the mother set up in a nursing training program and helps out whenever she can.

A few years pass and Lanita's mother is doing much better. They are still living in the one bedroom apartment, but she is working steadily and providing for Lanita properly. During thistime period, Lanita's father makes a reappearance in theie lives. Things seem to be going well between her parents until her father's infidelity becomes too much to deal with and her mother puts him out. Blaming her mother for her father's absence, Lanita begins to seek solace in one of two places the home of her childhood friend, Gloria or the local library. Here she forms a bond with the librarian who becomes a positive guiding force in her life. Right before they are to begin highschool, Gloria and her family move up to Oakland, leaving Lanita on her own.

In her high school years, Lanita spends most of her time with a friend named Stacey. She and Stacey are both on the cheerleading team, so that's how they bonded. On one occasion, Stacey's boyfriend gets them tickets to a taping of a Pepsi commerical starring The Jacksons. You know...the infamous one where Michael gets burned. Well, in this account Lanita and Stacey are among the first to see his hair spark flame and flag down the staff to bring it to their attention.

Although she was a cheerleader, Lanita didn't have much luck in the dating world. The only boy she ever allowed herself to "love",Jermaine, passed her by when an upperclassman sought out his affections. This leads to her librarian friend finding her a date for Prom at the last minute. She keeps mentioning a son of her friend's named Todd who is a really nice boy. Fastforward to the night of Prom and Todd is actually Todd Bridges of Diff'rent Strokes fame. He ends up being really nice and down to Earth. He makes Lanita feel like a princess and shows her a really good time. Of course, all of the girls in school were jealous when they saw her date, natch. Lanita also ends up being Prom Queen, much to her surprise, with Jermaine as her King.

Lanita goes off to college and reunites with Gloria at Howard University in DC. AT Howard she is living the life, excelling in all of her classes while partying to her heart's content on the weekends. It is at Howard that she first experiments with alcohol and drugs. In her junior year, Lanita is summoned back home because her mother is diagnosed with cirrohsis of the liver. When she returns home, she finds that her mother's life is in shambles. She is behind on rent, bills, and barely has enough food to eat. Instead of going back to Howard after winter break, Lanita decides to stay home and help her mother. She begins working as a secretary, but is barely making ends meet.

Looking to make more money, she goes to a strip club looking for a waitressing gig. She is told that there are no waitressing spots, but they do have opening for dancers. Initially resluctant, Lanita ends up auditioning and winning a spot at the club. During her stint at the club, she relies heavily on alcohol and drugs to get her through. She thinks that she is successfully concealing how she makes her money until an old friend from the neighborhood, Jermaine (remember him? The only man she ever loved) shows up to the club one night and sees her stripping. Jermaine, now an honest working man, manages to get her to leave that life behind and get back on the straight and narrow.

Years pass & Lanita and Jermaine find themselves comfortably ensconced in a relationship. Things progress and they eventually get married and have a child. A few years after their daughter was born, both of them return to school at USC. This brings is to present day. Lanita has had all of her spa treatments, telling her story to everyone she encounters while there. They are all so impressed with her tale, that she is told that her treatments were on the house and they wished her well. Lanita then goes on to graduate and bask in the loving glow of her wonderful, lucky life.
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So I picked this up randomly in the library. Sometime I scan the shelves and pick books all willy nilly. This was published by One World Books who've published other books I've loved like "Going Down South" and "Orange Mint and Honey", so I was immediately interested. Reading the plot summary on the back brought my interest level down a bit, but I thought I'd give it a shot anyway. Ugh. So mad, I did, haha.

As you can tell, my review of this book is LACED with sarcasm. I was not a fan. I found it to be too unbelievable. Yes, it is a work of fiction, but no one is that *lucky*. The overabundance of pop culture references were not helping either. I didn't like the way that the author found a way to put Lanita in too close of a proximity to these events. If they were a backdrop, I'm sure I would have been less annoyed. I found myself saying "Oh you're GOT to be kidding me" aloud several times while reading this book.

One of the character's names was Jimmy Choo for Christ's sake (no it wasn't the famed shoe designer, either). The plot was wholly unbelievable. Maybe I'm naive, but I can't imagine someone who went through all of the stuff that Lanita did, walking into a salon and spilling their guts to everyone they meet. I mean, clearly she was a walking, talking testimony of how God can get you through anything, but it was all chalked up to her being "lucky". *eye roll* I kinda of thought the book was a waste of my time. Not the discredit the author fully because I feel that she is a talented writer, but this one just did not do it for me. Perhaps I'll read another book by Butler and feel differently.

Monday, February 15

Orange Mint & Honey - Carleen Brice

Facing eviction and on the brink of flunking out of grad school, LaShay (Shay) Dixon is in the midst of a breakdown. Looking to her muse Nina Simone for answers, Shay soon realizes that the only way to find peace is to go home. Home for Shay is Denver, CO which she fled years ago after enduring life with an alcoholic mother, Nona. Nona, who has been clean for a few years, is now also mother to Sunny, aged 3. She welcomes Shay back home with open arms, but Shay is still mistrustful of her mother.

Reluctant to reconcile with her mother, Shay is antisocial and dismissive of everyone that comes into Nona's house. Most notably, Shay clashes with a girl whom Nona sponsors named Ivy. These two are like oil and water. Shay soon tires of sitting aorund the house doing nothing, so she gets a job at a local music store. There she encounters Oliver, an undergrad who teaches her about love. A story of self discovery and forgiveness, Orange Mint and Honey is an amazing read.

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I've noticed that I've picked up quite a few mother/daughter themed novels lately. I wonder if it's because I'm going to be moving back in with mine soon and am tryna prepare myself, haha! At any rate, I have been hearing about this novel for quite some time because I follow the author on twitter. She was gearing up for the release of a Lifetime movie based upon the novel starring Jill Scott and Nicole Beharie and it was exciting to hear about how her journey progressed. I knew that I wanted to read the novel before the premiere of the movie (which happens on 2/21), so I bought it.

Normally, if I'm being honest, I don't buy books unless I have a history w/ the author or it's really cheap. I read so many positive reviews of OM&H that I took a chance and was not disappointed. Brice writes characters that are not only relatable, but genuine. As much as I wanted to wring Shay's neck at times, I could understand where she was coming from. Watching the growth in both of the main characters of this novel as it progressed was like seeing a friend or family member have their "lightbulb moment" and turn their life around. I ended up wanting to know more in the final pages of this book. How things turned out after Shay went back to school? What was going on with Oliver? Could Nona really help Ivy get her life right?

To me, that's the mark of a good novel. When I am left with many more questions. When these characters are so imbedded in my brain that I feel like I need more of them. When they inspire emotional response, be it good or bad. I'm looking forward to seeing the Lifetime movie and how it compares to the novel.

Are You There Vodka? It's Me, Chelsea - Chelsea Handler

A collection of essays from the host of the E! show, Chelsea Lately, Handler's Are You There Vodka?... is a laugh from the beginning. This collection of 12 autobiographical sketches from various points in Chelsea's life are a mix of crazy, unbelievable, and just plain weird in some cases. The book opens with Chelsea telling the reader about the time she was late turning in homework and made up an elaborate story about how she was starring in the sequel to Private Benjamin with Goldie Hawn. There's another story in which Chelsea lies about her age to get a babysitting job and ends up with the charge from hell. My favorite story is from when Chelsea is on the book tour for her first release and goes over to the UK. Accompanied by one of her best friends, Chelsea is coerced into dining at a restaurant where the entire meal is consumed in the dark. Of course, hilarity ensues & they ultimately get kicked out of the restaurant. After leaving the restaurant they end up at a pub talking to whom they think is Don Henley of the Eagles, which brings about more laughter. It doesn't sound all that funny from my description, but I am sitting here in tears thinking about it.

My friend Sarah recommended this book to me a few months back, but everytime I went to the library it was checked out. I like Chelsea, but not enough to commit to spending over $20 for her book, so I waited patiently for it to finally be checked back in. It was well worth the wait. Chelsea is a ceritifed nut and this book proves it. My neigbors probably think that I am crazy because I was laughing outloud for at least 85% of this book. The other 15% of the time I was trying to stifle my laughter so I wouldn't appear too crazy, haha! Even if you aren't a fan of Handler's brand of comedy, I think you would still find yourself laughing out loud quite a bit while reading this one.

Wednesday, February 10

Going Down South - Bonnie J. Glover

At the suggestion of author Carleen Brice, I picked up this novel from my local library to read. The novel begins with the Stone family(Turk, Daisy, & Olivia Jean) trying to quietly and discreetly leave their house in the early AM hours to begin their journey down to Alabama. We soon learn that the reason for this trip is because of 15 year old Olivia Jean's pregnancy. Following the tradition of the 50s & 60s, Olivia Jean's parents are sending their pregnant teen down South to live with her grandmother, Birdie, for the remainder of her pregnancy. Turk and Daisy are in for a big surprise when Birdie announces that they cannot just drop Olivia Jean off and that Daisy must remain in Alabama with her daughter. Daisy hadn't been back to Alabama since she left it years earlier with Turk and was not looking forward to staying there at all.

Narrated by each of the women in this story, this novel is told through a series of flashbacks. The first section of the book is told from Olivia Jean's perspective. Through stories from her youth up until her current age, we learn how she ends up pregnant. Naive and yearning for a love to fill the hole left by perceived lack of love from her father, she falls for a slicktalking, handsome ladies man. In Daisy's section we learn of her childhood troubles that lead her to flee Alabama and not look back. In Birdie's section we learn about her life's struggles as well. The last section of the novel is a narrative of how all of these women live together in present day. Secrets are uncovered and their bonds are strengthened.

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I love reading mother-daughter stories and this tri-generational novel gave me everytihng I needed. I found myself going from sympathetic to frustrated to irritated back to sympathetic with each of these characters. "Watching" Olivia Jean falling for the oldest trick in the book had me talking to the book, telling her "that ain't it, girl!". Seeing how Daisy treated Olivia Jean and was seemingly only concerned with herself had me wanting to knock some sense into her, literally, until I learned her background. Birdie's character had my sympathy the whole way through until I felt like she was screaming off the pages tellin' me, "Girl I don't need your sympathy. Those were some thangs I had ta' go thru & I made it!"

She (Birdie) also happened to be my favorite character in the novel because she was the most true to herself the whole way through. Daisy & Olivia Jean were too busy trying to chase down what they thought they needed instead of looking inside and trying to work through the issues they had. As much as I hate the phrase, Miss Birdie was "keepin' it real" throughout the whole novel and I loved her for it. There's a scene where she and Daisy are having a knock down drag out fight that should be dramatic, but ends up being hilarious because of Birdie. Her no nonsense attitude reminds me of a few of the older women in my life.

All in all, I really liked this novel and will probably be buying it soon to add to my collection.

Tuesday, February 9

Breath Eyes Memory - Edwidge Danticat

At the age of 12 Sophie Caco's life changes in ways she never thought were imaginable. Her mother, who had left her behind in the care of an Aunt while she moved to the US, sends a plane ticket for Sophie to join her in the States. Sophie is reluctant to leave Haiti and more importantly, the only woman that she has known as a mother. Aunt Atie tells Sophie that it is time for them to part ways and that she must go back to the countryside to take care of her (Atie's) mother.

Upon arriving in the US and meeting up with her mother, Sophie is taken aback at the woman who greets her. The image of her mother that she has held in her mind for so long was of a young, carefree woman with a sunny smile. She is greeted by an aging, overwrought woman with whom she feels no connection. She is soon introduced to her mother's significant other, Marc, a high powered Haitian immigration attorney. Over the next few months (before school starts), Sophie accompanies her mother to her various jobs. It is in this time she learns that her grandmother used to "test" her mother and aunt to make sure that their hymens were in tact. The testing ended fairly early for Martine (Sophie's mom) because she was raped at the age of 16 on her way home from school by a masked assailant. Sophie was a product of this rape. Here, the relationship between mother and daughter shifts. Sophie begins to see herself as a constant reminder of her mother's assault.

Years pass and the ladies move to a different part of town. In this new area, Sophie finds herself becoming attracted to their neighbor, an older jazz musician named Joseph. While her mother works all day, Sophie gets to know Joseph. As time goes on, she finds herself falling for him and he for her. One night (after he had proposed marriage) she stays at Joseph's house later than usual, only to be caught sneaking back into her house by her mother. Enraged, she begins testing Sophie to make sure she is still pure. These nightly testing continue until one night, Sophie impales herself w/ her mother's spice pestle. After failing the test, Sophie is thrown out of her mother's house. Sophie then marries Joseph and moved with him to Providence, RI.

More years pass and the next time we see Sophie is travelling back home to Haiti w/ her young daughter, Brigitte. She had fled from her home in Providence while her husband was travelling with one of his bands. Upon her return to Haiti, she finds her grandmother Ife is constantly speaking about her (Ife's) impending death though she is healthy as an older woman can be. Her Aunt Atie, who was previously illiterate, has learned how to read, but has also becoming dependant on alcohol.

A few weeks into her trip, Sophie's mother comes back to Haiti since she left over 20years ago. She was summoned by her mother as an effort to help her reconcile with Sophie. Martine also comes on behalf of Sophie's husband who has been worried after returning from tour and finding an empty home. After talking through their issues, the ladies try to mend their relationship and return to the States. On the journey back to the States, Martine becomes violently ill. Sophie stays with her mother before returning to Providence. Martine then confesses that she is pregnant by Marc, but unsure about whether or not she will keep the child.

Sophie tries to convince her mother to keep the child and learn from the mistakes she made while raising her. Martine is convinced that the child is evil and wants to abort. She has told Marc about the pregnancy and he is excited about it. One day Sophie receives a frantic call from Marc. Martine has stabbed herself in the stomach seventeen times and is now deceased. Her demons would not allow her to carry this child full-term even if it was at the expense of her own life. She only sees peace after her death when Sophie and Marc return to Haiti and bury her in her hometown.

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Edwidge Danticat is quickly becoming one of my favorite modern day authors. Her writing style is simplistic, yet beautifully structured. Her stories are those to whome anyone can relate. Each story that I have read by her has been a snapshot into the life of Haitians (immigrants or on the island) that's rich in culture. Breath Eyes Memory is a hauntingly tragic tale.

My heart ached for Sophie when she was brought to America and stripped from everyone that she knew. I could not imagine having such an upheaval at an early age. You have to learn an entirely new way of living in a short amount of time to fit in. Even though her mother managed to keep her in a Haitian immigrant enclave, when venturing out to school or even on the streets, she had to become American. That switching back and forth could not be easy.

Another thing w/ Sophie that struck a chord with me was how little she was educated about the things in life that school can't teach you. Her mother, Martine, continued the cycle that probably spanned back generations in their family. Sophie has the advantage of seeing how badly thing turned out for previous women in her family and has a chance to change all of that while she is raising Brigitte. I'd love to see a sequel to this novel that tells the story of Brigitte and any offspring she may have.